In a relationship, there is always one who loves the other person more. In our case, I know for a fact that I love Kap more than he loves me.
As soon as he steps into my line of vision -and the kids can attest to this, it’s like my world automatically becomes better, happier, livelier. When he is not around, I miss him like crazy & I would call him on the phone just to hear his voice. When he is around, I stick to him like a lovesick puppy. I crave for constant contact. Even asleep, I feel better knowing he is beside me, our hands clasped together, our legs intertwined.
Kap on the other hand, is Mr. NR -No reaction. :P He’s not big on words or feelings. He is also not affectionate or touchy-feely. He doesn’t do grandiose things to sweep me off my feet. But what I’ve discovered is, he loves me most.
How do you know when your man loves you? He will rub your feet when you’re tired and take you out for ice cream because he is simply that kind of man. He will abandon his plans & rub your back when you’re sick without you ever having to ask. The man who loves you will allow you to grow as a person without taking space. He will be patient, he will be kind. He will know when to apologize, and when to keep quiet. He will never yell. He will laugh at your jokes and find you beautiful, even at your worst. The man who loves you more will love you entirely, unconditionally. He will follow you anywhere and do anything for you.
He is dependable and with him, you know you will lead a lifetime of contentment. You will travel with him, you will push him towards his goals. You will have wonderful memories and photo albums. You will celebrate milestones with pride, you will grow old holding his hand and raise balanced children with him. When your children fall in love, you will smile and hope they find someone exactly like him, because it will guarantee them the satisfied life you have led.
Yes, I love Kap more. But I’m also sure of this.. He loves me most. <3