Kap & Me My Kids

Super Dad

Si Kap. Not the most engaging dad I have to admit. Ever since, hindi sya yung malaro sa mga anak. He never changed a diaper, never gave them a bath, never mixed their milk or fed them. He loves them of course. I know he does, but he’s not the type who spends every waking hour with them. For short, hindi sya mom.

But one thing I admire about Kap is he really pulls through where it counts. Like some weeks ago. Ate invited her gym friends to a Taal sojourn so they can wakeboard & play in the water. Kung baga, naka-kompromiso na. Everything has been planned & mapped out already and preparations have been made.

Kap is normally makunat (as I have recounted here plenty of times) but he went ahead & bought water toys coz he wanted Ate to be bida. ;) Then nag-grocery sya for food & drinks to feed Ate‘s guests lunch, meryenda & dinner. Then he reserved rooms for us to use para daw kumportable & may aircon. Uh-huh, we are talking about one & the same Kap! ;P

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And he bought our Babyson a new wakeboard vest to boot to protect the internal organs! Basta pang is-ports, Kap goes all-out. Grabe sobrang mini-me nya our Babyson! <3

The night before the weekend trip, we went to check on the boat to fill it with the things we would need. He filled the gas tank, we put the cooler & drinks para ice nalang kinabukasan. As we were about to leave, he decided to check the motor. Aba, problema, ayaw mag-start! Nag-panic si Kap my Kap.

I told him, don’t be OA. If it won’t start eh di it won’t start what can we do. Resked nalang. (Halatang I didn’t wanna go talaga lol) But no, he really went through all the trouble & called all his men so they can fix it right there & then. Nagkagulo sa shop. At 9 pm, naghanap talaga kami ng bukas na hardware so he can get the things needed to fix the boat & get it to start. But all were closed. Good thing he knew the number of a supplier & asked for a favor.





Hungry & tired after a long day, I asked him crankily why go through the trouble pwede naman i-resked. He replied: Kawawa naman, ayaw kong ma-disappoint si Jana minsan lang mag-invite. Nagsabi na sya sa friends nya saka excited yung bata.

This. To his eldest daughter who is most of the time sungit to him hehe. So I sent Ate the above photos with updates. I told her to save them on her phone & to look at it whenever she’s feeling exceptionally bitchy to her dad. :P


A bear hug from his princess as thank you. <3

Finally, naayos din!

Although the odds weren’t in his favour talaga that day hehe. Ayaw pa siyang pauwiin at pagpahingahin ng tadhana!


Busted tire naman! :P

Dear Dad. You are amazing. You work hard for us, you love us so much and most of the time we take you for granted. Thank you so much for being you. We love you & we appreciate all that you do.

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  • Reply Noel Q.

    Naiyak ako, pramis! I wish I had a dad like that… maybe things would’ve turned out differently for me.

    But, no regrets, I love my life now… esp. with TP (and chef… hahaha…)

    Your kids are so lucky to have a dad like Kap! =)

    June 22, 2015 at 8:08 am
    • Reply sugargospice

      Malandi! ;)) Hay. Yes, my kids are so blessed hindi lahat masaya ang life story. Missing you! :-*

      June 22, 2015 at 8:48 am
  • Reply trisha_cm

    I super LOVE this post! Like Noel Q, “I wish I had a dad like that… maybe things would’ve turned out differently for me.”

    June 22, 2015 at 9:19 am
    • Reply sugargospice

      You & me both. Have a blessed week ahead trisha mwah! :-*

      June 22, 2015 at 10:38 am
  • Reply cheekeegirl

    I love your voice Ms. Jane! You have great kids because you and Kap are great parents as too! Congrats for being a good parents and for having good and loving children

    June 22, 2015 at 9:56 am
    • Reply sugargospice

      Thanks you Donna! :)

      June 22, 2015 at 10:38 am
  • Reply cherx

    Happy Father’s Day idol KAP! Dami nyo ng pogi points ah!

    June 22, 2015 at 1:28 pm
    • Reply sugargospice

      Hahaha oo nga enough for THREE lifetimes ang pogi points ng Kap ko. :) Thank you! :-*

      June 22, 2015 at 2:34 pm
  • Reply JANa

    I’m not the most masungit!!! JENA IS!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m so nice kaya I synced his phone :p AND made his ridiculous ringtone.

    June 22, 2015 at 2:15 pm
    • Reply JANa

      AND I TURN OF THE DIGIBOX AND TV WHEN HE FALLS ASLEEP (which is like every night na noh)

      June 22, 2015 at 2:16 pm
      • Reply JANa

        AND I TURN *OFF

        (Post this bcoz I don’t want people to think I have bad grammar)

        June 22, 2015 at 2:17 pm
        • Reply sugargospice

          LOL. Switzerland me. ;))

          June 22, 2015 at 2:34 pm
      • Reply sugargospice

        Still no comment.. @_@

        June 22, 2015 at 2:33 pm
    • Reply sugargospice

      No comment. :P

      June 22, 2015 at 2:33 pm
    • Reply candy

      Jana, ganun talaga panganay.. Most Masungit but always very helpful and mindful of other people’s needs esp our family.

      Tanggapin mo na. Hehehe dati mega deny din ako but my family knows me too well.

      June 22, 2015 at 5:41 pm
      • Reply sugargospice

        Hahahahaha napatawa ako ng malakas, Candy! #LamNa ;)) But she really is sweet, thoughtful & helpful. Hahahahaha!

        June 22, 2015 at 6:02 pm
  • Reply michconstantino

    Kap’s really amazing :)

    June 22, 2015 at 5:00 pm
    • Reply sugargospice

      Thank you. I would have to agree. :)

      June 22, 2015 at 5:14 pm
  • Reply L

    Your voice is so cute, Ms. Jane! :) You and your family are so blessed to have an amazing husband/dad. Not all dads are like that and I feel blessed I have a dad who is like your Kap. Dibale na mahirapan basta lang magawa niya stuff for us. Those kind of men are very admirable.

    June 22, 2015 at 9:29 pm
    • Reply sugargospice

      So true. Thank you for dropping by & leaving a comment mwah! :-*

      June 22, 2015 at 10:38 pm
  • Reply Kei Aclaro

    I salute Kap for doing everything to make sure na matutuloy yung lakad at bonding nyo with Ate’s friends… I, too, like Sir Noel and all the others here, wish I had the same dad… ;)

    …And ganun po talaga ata madalas ang panganay. Medyo may kasungitan sa mga dads pero deep inside we really care and we will also do everything for our dads…

    Naantig po talaga puso ko sa post na ito… Thanks for sharing this with us, Ms. Jane… It made me reflect on my relationship with my dad too…

    June 23, 2015 at 9:30 pm
    • Reply sugargospice

      Hahahahaha #LamNa talaga hindi na makakakabig at bwelo si Ate! :)) Thank you also Kei for loving the GOppets & being a part of our virtual family mwah! :-*

      June 24, 2015 at 11:48 am

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